Jan spent way too much money not certain how many people would come, My plan was to bring hot dog fixings and some charcoal, to picnic at the near by Willow park. It was sooo hot but we took the heat and sat around and talked for a couple of hours, ate, then a huge thunderstorm brewed up so we packed up and left.
The time together was just right for me
Brent was indifferent, he shows no emotion, this is so sad to watch, I have no clue as to how and help him.
Good friends came to support us. I felt happy that they came.
We each took turns to fill in the grave, I didn't plan on doing that but something pushed me to go ahead, it did bring a tear
Brother Glenn took special care to fill completely, this was sad to watch
We stood back and watched the grave digger enlarge the too small hole, silent, not knowing what to do with our selves.

1 comment:
Big hugs! Whew, you made it through another hard event. I didn't know filling the grave yourself was even an option. Maybe Jan's idea was to let people feel like they were part of things. Love you!
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